Finding Your Engagement Session Style
Let Your Life Lead the Way
The truth is, your engagement session style is already within you—it’s simply a matter of uncovering it. There’s no need to force anything or overthink every detail. The key is to look inward: think about your shared lifestyle, your individual quirks, your favorite memories, and what brings you joy. Once you start from a place of authenticity, everything else—wardrobe, props, location—will fall into place naturally.
Shared Passions and Hobbies
Think about the things you love doing together. Are your weekends spent trying new recipes and cooking side by side? Do you have a Saturday morning vinyl-listening ritual, or are you always chasing the next hike or swing dancing event? These everyday moments are pure gold when it comes to styling your session.
Incorporating your passions not only makes your photos more meaningful—it also makes you feel more relaxed and confident during the shoot. Picture yourselves in your kitchen with flour-dusted cheeks and playful smiles, or dancing under string lights in a vintage-inspired look. It’s about telling your love story in your own language.
Your Work Can Be Beautiful, Too
Your professions are a big part of your life and identity, so don’t shy away from including elements that nod to your careers. Maybe he's a firefighter and she’s a kindergarten teacher—imagine a charming mix of rugged and sweet, like helmets next to picture books. Or maybe one of you works in science and the other in hospitality; even subtle nods like a lab coat draped over a chair or holding hands across a vintage recipe book can add a creative and personal touch.
The key is to keep it light, natural, and symbolic—just enough to give a glimpse into your world without turning it into a full-blown costume party.
Sports Fans, Music Lovers, and Everything In Between
Are you die-hard fans of a sports team? Throw on your jerseys, bring a few props, and have a little fun! If music is your love language, think about how you can channel that into your session. Whether it’s a cozy session at home with records spinning or a glam night out styled like an old-school jazz club, your vibe will shine through when it’s rooted in something you both love.
Not into team sports or music? Maybe you’re both readers, gamers, or podcast junkies—no passion is too niche to include. In fact, it’s the specific, personal details that make your session uniquely yours.
Find Your Element
Where do you feel most at ease as a couple? Some people thrive in the great outdoors—running barefoot through tall grass, cuddled up on a blanket by the lake, or laughing in the middle of a wildflower field. Others come alive in the city, surrounded by streetlights, murals, and the buzz of activity. Maybe your perfect backdrop is a quiet bookstore, a cozy café, or the halls of a museum.
Wherever you feel the most “you,” that’s where your session should happen. Think less about the aesthetics and more about the feeling. If you feel comfortable, confident, and connected, the photos will follow.
Don’t Forget the Fun Factor
Sometimes the best moments are the unexpected ones. What always gets you both laughing? Is it a favorite board game, a spontaneous trip to the fair, or sharing a milkshake at the diner where you had your first date? These kinds of playful, nostalgic moments are perfect for creating natural, joyful images.
Your engagement session doesn’t have to be stiff or overly formal. It can be fun, vibrant, and full of life—just like your relationship.
Final Thoughts
When in doubt, remember this: your engagement session should feel like you. Don’t feel pressured to mimic something you saw online if it doesn’t resonate with your relationship. Whether you're dressed to the nines in downtown glam or snuggled up in sweats on your couch, what matters most is the love you’re celebrating.
If you need help narrowing down your style or choosing a location, I’m always here to brainstorm with you. Let’s make it magical, memorable, and 100% true to who you are.
